Subject: Do you want to Feel Connected? Market Place posted by NatalieZ on Wednesday, August 19th 2009 @ 9:32 AM
Do You Want to Feel Connected? Loved? Honoured AND Respected?
Want to Ignite the Spark of Sacred Intimacy?
Remember when you first met your partner? How, in the early days of your relationship; you honoured each other? When your man supported you, was lovingly attentive to all of what you had to say - and you felt loved and nurtured?
Remember when as a woman, you were full of appreciation for everything he did - you never put him down or embarrassed him in front of others? When you only focused on his strengths?
You supported each others' needs... on every level of each others' being. You honoured and respected each other.
So what happened? Life. You both got busy - let other things distract you. You stopped doing all those little things for your partner that made him or her feel special. Valued. Loved.
And as each of you put less into your relationship - you got less out of it. Then your expectations began distorting. You were no longer present with your partner, appreciating your differences. Your differing ways of communicating your needs became a burden - because both of you no longer felt heard - or held.
Do you want to know how to create sacred intimacy? Are you ready to create the relationship of your dreams?
Do you know that change comes, from the inside-out? Did you know that life is like a mirror, reflecting back to you, that which you believe to be true about yourself? Your next step is to look at your own beliefs.
When you believe that your partner must change in order for you to be happy, you are setting yourself up for more pain than pleasure. Lasting change comes from the inside-out. Do you BELIEVE you are lovable? Do you FEEL worthy?
Are you willing to look at the beliefs that crowd your perception of who you are today?
Sacred Intimacy is about honouring Who You Are. Right Here. Right Now. It is also about being present with your partner - and acknowledging their needs as well as your own. Understanding the differences between you empowers you to be fully present within your relationship.
Your circumstances do not make you who you are; they simply mould your beliefs - ideas of who you THINK you are. They are beliefs. They are not true - but BELIEVING them creates more of the same life experiences.
Please understand that all of your learnings in life, have brought you to where you are now. You didn't know what you didn't know. But you are HERE now. Your next step is to thank yourself, for following your intuition... which brought you here :-)
Being intimate with yourself is the first step. Are you ready?
Love is something you give; when you FEEL it within yourself
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